Of Fluidity and Friendships

Today I was surprised by a reunion with a really good friend of mine after many years, and today I also bid farewell to another as she moves away.

We reminisced,with cats in our laps, over good times, hilarious times, weird times, some cringey times, old times, recent times and yes, we even reminisced about sadder times.
We remembered moments of sheer fright, when the biggest threat to our 7 or 8 year old selves, was a mean, blind dog next door. We remembered multitudes of dainty tea parties with “real milk”, and the time we ran a whole make believe city on our beloved Quran teacher’s front porch, complete with a court system and supermarket ☺️.
We remembered forgotten purple BFF diaries, where we had written all our birthdays on a flowery paper wheel, and turned it every month to see whose was next. We remembered when we stayed back late in class, because we’d forgotten our portion to memorize for the day and we’d whisper together when our teacher would make us dinner.
And we remembered fat envelopes full of letters to each other from throughout the week, filled with whatever wonders, worries and secrets our tinier selves had.

And then the flower wheel turned over many times, and things changed. People came and people went. Many passed by, few stayed. But those who stayed, really stayed, even if not in person, but at heart.

The joy on our faces as we hugged for the first time in a long while is a testament to that bond, that friendship – the way two people glide back to the nature of their relationship after a separation – like a body of water, that after being punctured, gracefully returns to its form.

And as we now began to talk of new times, and new interests, new places, new passions, I was reminded of the fluidity of life.

People will come and go, paths will intertwine and diverge, alike. The only thing that makes a difference is how you choose to impact those people whose lives were connected with yours – how you choose for them to remember you.

And maybe, just maybe, you’ll get surprised by a friend with the brightest smile popping out of a closet to surprise you. (and maybe a small heart attack, but I can’t say I didn’t warn you) 😊

And if you read this, love you guys, A & H❤️


4 thoughts on “Of Fluidity and Friendships

  1. This was so incredibly heartwarming to read! It gave me hope for my friendships too. Ones I worry over at times for fear I’ll lose them due to the uncertainty of life and all that the future holds. I loved reading the details you shared and it made me reminisce myself of childhood memories I’m so grateful to have been apart of. Thank you for sharing this! You did so, so eloquently too, might I add. It was like the spark I needed to ignite the candle of hope, for happier times still yet to come ~

    • Your comments always make me feel so nice inside❤️ I couldn’t have hoped for a better way this could have impacted a reader, than the way it did for you💕 So than YOU for reading so thoughtfully, and taking the time out of your day to write this, and make mine😊 May Allah reunite your heart with those of your friends, old and new, and cause you to be in the shade of His throne, on they day there will be none other, because of the mutual love you had for Him. Ameen❤️ Thank you soooo much💗💗

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